Dating Apps for Women Travelers: Connect, Explore, and Stay Safe

I’m Ivy Van Houten—born to an American mom and a Dutch dad, raised in the U.S. until I turned 18, and then BAM—off to Amsterdam to live with my father. I earned a degree in Tourism & Hospitality Management, worked as a tour guide & personal concierge, and spent years helping travelers unlock Amsterdam’s hidden gems. ✨ But there was always some questions that kept popping up from the women I met along the way:

What’s it really like to date in Amsterdam?” 💭 ...

Here’s What No One Tells You About Dating While Traveling ❤️🌍 ...

Dating Apps Have Transformed the Game 📱✈️ ...

Looking for More Than Just a Tourist Experience?

That’s exactly why I wrote LOVE ON THE GO – Why Not Look for Your Man in Amsterdam? a totally fresh, no-BS travel guide for women who want more than just a tourist experience. ✈️

But here’s the deal:

🚀 The book isn’t out yet. 👀 And before it drops, I want to hear from YOU. Your thoughts, your feedback, and your experiences are everything to me. 💬💕 This book is made for YOU. It’s time for us to take control of our travel experiences and redefine what it means to explore love and adventure—on our terms. 🌟 Let's make it happen!

  • 🔥 Would you read a guide like this?

  • 🔥 Have you ever wondered about romance while traveling?

  • 🔥 What’s your biggest frustration with dating apps on the go?

  • 🔥 Are you ready to meet like-minded women who can support you through your travel adventures? 🌍

❓ Any doubts or burning questions? 🔥 Drop them here – I’m all ears! 👂

Tell me everything—Can't wait to hear! 👂Your input means the world to me! 💕

💖 Your Desires, Your Rules: A Woman’s Guide to Amsterdam’s Hidden Freedoms

💋 Let’s get one thing straight—your desires, your pleasure, your experiences? They are yours to own. No apologies. No shame. No “shoulds” or “shouldn’ts.”

We, as women, have been told for far too long what is “appropriate” for us. That our curiosity should be tamed, that our sensuality should fit into neat little boxes, that seeking pleasure—on our terms—is something to feel guilty about. Enough of that. 🚫

That’s exactly why I’m writing this guide just for usEros On The Go - Love or Adventure, SHE is never alone in Amsterdam. 💫 A guide made by a woman, for women, who want to explore the Red Light District with confidence, curiosity, and zero judgment. Whether you’re here for romance, self-discovery, or just a little adventure, you deserve to step into this experience feeling empowered, not unsure.

Amsterdam is a city where you make your own rules. And guess what? You’re never alone in that. 💕

three women standing in a Amsterdam Red Light District street with their cell phones
three women standing in a Amsterdam Red Light District street with their cell phones
Dedicated 💖 To Every Woman Who Dares to Explore 💖
🤝 Shared Experiences and Sisterhood: You’re Not Alone in  This

Let’s be real—there’s something incredibly empowering about experiencing spaces that were once considered "taboo" with other women who get it. 💖 Whether you’re traveling solo or with friends, you’re never truly alone in Amsterdam’s Red Light District. A whole community of adventurous, open-minded women has walked these streets before you—and many more will after. 🌍

👯‍♀️ Women Travelers Are Everywhere
Amsterdam attracts women from all over the world who are looking to break free, explore, and embrace new experiences. Many solo female travelers have shared that they felt surprisingly at ease here—because when you strip away the misconceptions, this is simply a place of exploration, connection, and fun. And guess what? You don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Dating apps—especially those catering to sensual experiences and erotic venues—aren’t just about meeting people, they can be an incredible source of community and guidance. 💡 Women who’ve already explored De Wallen often share insights, recommendations, and safety tips, making it easier for you to navigate this world with confidence.

🗣️ The Best Conversations Happen Here
Ever had a heart-to-heart with a total stranger that changed the way you saw the world? That’s the kind of magic that happens in Amsterdam. ✨ Whether it’s over a cocktail in a chic bar 🍸, during a female-led tour 🎤, or while browsing a boutique filled with luxury lingerie 👙—the shared curiosity and openness among women here create instant bonds. And if you're feeling unsure about where to go or what to expect, many women’s groups on dating and social apps
act as a safe space for exchanging real, unfiltered advice. From firsthand experiences to discreet recommendations on the best venues for different vibes, these platforms can be a game-changer in making sure you step into your adventure fully informed and supported.

💃 Feminine Power in Every Corner
In De Wallen, you'll find women supporting women in every sense:

💜 Women-owned businesses promoting body positivity & self-love
📖 Museums & exhibitions highlighting the history of women’s pleasure & empowerment
🎭 Art performances, poetry readings, and workshops on sensuality and self-expression

So, sis—download that app, join the conversation, and step into Amsterdam like you own it. Because you do. 💋✨

The Red Light District is NOT just for men! 💃🚀💖

The Red Light District is certainly NOT a place that should make women feel intimidated or out of place. If anything, it’s a space that challenges outdated views on female sexuality and personal freedom. It’s about choice. 💪✨

That said, I totally get it—despite everything I’ve shared, you might still have doubts, questions, or even that little voice inside whispering, “But is this really for me?” You’re not alone in feeling that way. Many women, young and less young, approach this adventure with excitement and hesitation. And that’s exactly why, in my guide, I dive deep into these concerns, tackling them head-on with real talk, practical advice, and insider knowledge.

💡 But let’s start here—I’ve put together a list of FAQs addressing the most common doubts women have about exploring De Wallen—including a special section for women from non-Western countries, for whom visiting De Wallen could present additional challenges or concerns. Click through, and you might just find the answers (and reassurance) you need before taking that first step—and if you’re looking for even deeper insights, real talk, and all the insider tips, you’ll find them in my guide, Eros On The Go – Love or Adventure, SHE is never alone in Amsterdam. 💋

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